The energy at First UU this past Sunday, February 8th, was nothing short of electric. We gathered with a shared purpose: to decide on the future of our ministry. We are thrilled to announce that by an overwhelming majority, the congregation has voted to call Rev. Kristen Kuriga as our settled Associate Minister! By the Numbers: A Strong Showing The meeting was called to order by Board President Karen Lamphere, who confirmed that we hadn't just met our quorum—we blew past it. While we needed 144 eligible voting members to make the decision official, 213 members made their voices heard. The engagement across our community was inspiring:
A Spirit of Connection While the vote was the "business" of the day, the atmosphere felt more like a family reunion. Rev. Justine opened the meeting by lighting our chalice, setting a tone of warmth and reflection. During the interludes while votes were being counted, the sanctuary was filled with music and storytelling. Rev. Justine led the congregation in song, and members took turns at the mic to share heartfelt reflections on what Rev. Kristen and this church community mean to them. It was a beautiful reminder of the deep roots we’ve already planted together. The Path to "Yes" Before the results were announced, the Call Discernment Team gave a brief presentation on the journey that brought us here. They detailed the intentional, six-month process they led to ensure everyone who wanted to share was heard. This successful vote is a testament to that hard work and the clarity of our collective vision. The Celebration The moment the vote was announced, the room erupted. Rev. Kristen graciously accepted the call to a resounding standing ovation. The festivities didn't end in the sanctuary, though! The congregation moved to Bard Hall to keep the momentum going. We celebrated this new chapter the best way we know how: with plenty of laughter, community spirit, and, of course, cake. Thank you to everyone who participated, voted, and shared their heart during this process. We are so excited to see what the future holds with Rev. Kristen officially by our side.
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In a powerful display of unity and solidarity, faith leaders and congregants from across San Diego County, including First UU ministers and congregants, gathered on Sunday, January 25th, for the "Procession of Faith: Standing for All That is Sacred." This event was sponsored by the San Diego Organizing Project (SDOP) and was a direct response to increased ICE activity in San Diego neighborhoods, aiming to reclaim the sanctity of the streets and stand in unwavering support of immigrant brothers and sisters. The afternoon began at Cesar Chavez Park in Barrio Logan, where hundreds of people converged. Faith leaders opened the gathering with heartfelt prayers, setting a tone of solemn purpose and hope. Following the opening prayers, the crowd embarked on a walking procession through the vibrant streets of Barrio Logan. The procession was not merely a walk but a pilgrimage of purpose, stopping at five different locations where recent ICE raids have impacted local San Diegans. Each stop served as a poignant reminder of the human cost of these actions and a moment for collective prayer and reflection. Local elected leaders also participated, demonstrating their support for the community and the powerful message of the procession. The journey culminated at Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, where the participants engaged in a deeply meaningful act: the signing of a prophetic declaration. This declaration boldly affirmed their commitment to standing for all that is sacred, specifically for and with their immigrant neighbors who face intimidation and fear. Reverend Kristen read the English version of this powerful pledge, resonating with the hearts of those present. The "Standing for All That is Sacred" procession was a powerful testament to the strength of faith, community, and solidarity in the face of adversity. It was a day when the streets of Barrio Logan became a sacred space, reclaimed by those who believe in justice, compassion, and the inherent dignity of all people. Sign the Prophetic Declaration: Standing for all that is Sacred. When: Thursday, February 26 Time: 6:00 PM – 9:30 PM Where: Bard Hall, First UU Church of San Diego Admission: Open to the public. Bring your perspective and an open mind. Free event In an era of political noise and global uncertainty, sometimes the most profound insights come from a flickering screen and a man with a toothbrush mustache. The Social Justice Film Series is honored to invite you to a special screening and discussion of Charlie Chaplin’s 1940 masterpiece, The Great Dictator. This isn't just a "classic movie night"—it’s a deep dive into the roots of tyranny, the power of resistance, and the enduring hope for human dignity. The Story: A Tale of Two Identical StrangersThe film follows two parallel lives:
Why This Film? Why Now? The Great Dictator was a "visionary satire" in the truest sense. Chaplin began filming before the full horrors of WWII were known, yet he managed to capture the absurdity and the danger of authoritarianism with uncanny precision. History marked the film, and the film marked history. It serves as a reminder that:
Join us for the screening followed by an engaging community discussion where we’ll bridge the gap between this 80-year-old satire and our current social landscape. Our stories are the threads that weave our community together, and some stories offer a unique mirror to our own identities. This February, the Racialized Identities Awareness (RIA) Book Group invites you to pull up a chair and dive deep into a masterpiece of contemporary literature. We will gather to discuss this year's One Book, One San Diego selection: "Deacon King Kong" by James McBride. About the BookSet in 1960s Brooklyn, Deacon King Kong is a vibrant, funny, and deeply moving novel that begins with a startling act of violence and unfolds into a beautiful tapestry of interconnected lives. McBride explores themes of race, faith, and the complex social structures of urban life with wit and profound humanity. It is the perfect catalyst for our ongoing conversation about racialized identities and how they shape our world. Gathering DetailsWhether you’ve finished the book or are still mid-chapter, we welcome your voice and your perspective.
Why Join the RIA Book Group?The RIA Book Group provides a safe, reflective space to explore how race and identity impact our lived experiences. Through the lens of literature, we practice active listening, empathy, and critical thinking to better understand ourselves and our neighbors. Have questions? For more information or to find out how to get a copy of the book, please reach out to Louise at [email protected]. We look forward to a night of rich conversation and community building. See you in Room 321! In times of uncertainty, our greatest strength lies in our faith and our community. Recently, we have witnessed an increase in ICE activity that has brought a growing sense of fear to the doorsteps of our neighbors, friends, and families. As people of faith, we know that we cannot remain silent when our community is hurting. We are called to a higher purpose: to act as a public witness, rooted in prayer and moral clarity. Why We WalkThis isn't just a march; it is a prayerful procession. We are coming together to demonstrate that every person is sacred and that our solidarity is stronger than fear. This is an invitation to stand on the side of love, dignity, and justice for all our families. Event DetailsWe invite you, your family, and your congregation to join the San Diego Organizing Project (SDOP) for this vital community action.
RSVP here: bit.ly/SDOPsacred Let’s walk together, pray together, and show our community that they do not stand alone. We look forward to seeing you there. A message from Tony Bianca, Director of Spiritual Exploration and Worship Arts. Watch the video or read the transcript below! As many of you know, we will hold a Congregational Meeting on Sunday, February 8 at 11:30 am at our Hillcrest campus. At this meeting, we will decide together whether to call Rev. Kristen as a settled minister at First UU.
According to our bylaws, decisions of this significance require a quorum of 35 percent of our voting members. For our congregation, that means 144 voting members must be present, either in person or live online, for the vote to take place. In the coming weeks, you will likely receive several reminders encouraging participation so that we can meet this requirement. I would like to extend a slightly different kind of invitation. Rather than focusing on 144 as a minimum number to reach, imagine what it would feel like if everyone who is able to vote chose to participate. Picture the meeting house filled with 350 or even 400 people, gathered as a community committed to spiritual growth and to making important decisions together through our democratic process. Imagine the joy, the energy, and the shared sense of purpose in that moment. This meeting is not only about meeting a requirement. It is an opportunity to celebrate who we are as a congregation, to be together in joy, and to affirm our commitment to one another and to our shared future. I hope you will join us on February 8 at 11:30 am at Hillcrest, bringing a spirit of joy, connection, and community as we make this important decision together and continue our journey toward becoming a beloved community. As we approach the one-year mark of the current administration, ICE Out of San Diego has grown from a local movement into a pillar of resistance. Week after week, our community has met cruelty with courage, refusing to let intimidation silence the demand for justice. This Thursday, January 22, the momentum continues. The San Diego Immigrant Rights Consortium (SDIRC) and Alliance San Diego are co-hosting our weekly rally at the Federal Building. We are standing together to demand accountability, due process, and a return to fundamental human rights. Why We Are Still Here Even in the face of rising federal overreach and intimidation, San Diegans continue to show up. We are gathering not just to demand that ICE get out of San Diego, but to call for a total end to the brutality and impunity that have defined this past year. We believe our city’s safety and dignity should always come before enforcement games. A Year of Courage This rally marks one year of resistance. It is a celebration of the ways you have shown up, spoken out, and stood firm. We invite you to bring your signs from this past year. Let’s lift up a visual history of our collective struggle and a single, clear demand: SHAVE ICE OUT OF SAN DIEGO. Rally Details
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Exciting times are ahead for First Church! The Board of Trustees has officially called a Special Congregational Meeting to take a significant step in our community’s growth and development. We are gathering to discuss and vote on calling Rev. Kristen as our settled Associate Minister. This is a pivotal moment for our congregation, and we want you to be a part of it. Meeting Details
Why Your Attendance is Critical To make this vote official, we must reach a quorum of approximately 144 eligible voting members. Without this quorum, we cannot move forward with the process. Whether you join us in the pews or log on from home, your presence counts. Online participants are fully counted toward the quorum, so please join us in whichever way is most convenient for you! Note: Grab a snack in Bard Hall after the service and then head over to the Meeting House (or your computer) so we can begin promptly at 11:30 am. Building Our Future Together This meeting is more than just a vote; it’s an opportunity to engage in conversation about the next chapter of First Church. We are looking forward to gathering as a community to take this important step in our shared ministry. See you on the 8th & tell your friends! In an era defined by political volatility and social uncertainty, how do we move beyond fear and toward collective action? Dr. Bob Nowlan, Professor Emeritus of Critical Studies at the University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire, in collaboration with the Democratic Socialists of America–San Diego, is proud to announce a new course offering through the Free University of San Diego: End Times Fascism–or What? How Understanding the Present Can Salvage (and Enable the Fight for) the Future. This eight-week seminar is designed to be more than just a lecture series. It is a shared space for San Diegans to dismantle the isolation of modern individualism and replace it with collaboration, participation, and mutual responsibility. Course Details
Why This Class Matters We are living through a unique socio-political phenomenon that many find difficult to name or navigate. By theorizing the "precarious present," we can begin to see the roadmap to a far better future. The curriculum may draw from the works of influential thinkers, activists, and scholars, such as:
Join the Conversation Whether you are a longtime activist or simply someone looking to make sense of the world today, your voice is welcome. We will move through these complex texts and ideas together, practicing the very community-building skills necessary to fight for the future we want to see. How to Enroll Enrollment is completely free and open to all members of the community. For more information or to express your interest in enrolling, please contact Bob Nowlan at [email protected]. Looking for a thought-provoking and timely theatrical experience? Join us at the First UU on January 25th, 2026, at 4:00 PM for a special presentation of "Everything You Need to Know About Abortion in an Hour or Less." Presented by Tuyo Theatre, this play offers a unique and vital perspective on a complex issue. Set in an Oklahoma high school in December 2023, the story follows an educator on her very last day before retirement. In a final, courageous act, she chooses to bypass the status quo and provide her students with essential, often-stigmatized information. What to Expect: The play delves into crucial topics with honesty and compassion, including:
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Don't miss this opportunity to engage with a powerful piece of theatre that encourages dialogue, understanding, and compassion. We hope to see you there! Feeling the urgency of climate change and wondering how you can make a real difference? Or perhaps you're already engaged and curious about the diverse efforts happening across San Diego 350? Then you won't want to miss the Climate Open House, January 15th, at 5:30 PM in Bard Hall at First UU! When: January 15, 2026 @ 5:30 pm – 7:30 pm Where: Bard Hall, First Unitarian Universalist Church, 298 W Arbor Dr San Diego, California 92103 Join First UU's Climate Justice Team and San Diego 350 for an evening dedicated to understanding and engaging with crucial climate action. We'll be highlighting the vital work of SD350 in areas like Transportation, Legislation, Raising the Alarm, and so much more. This is your chance to get an inside look at our current actions and ambitious 2026 goals. What to Expect:
Don't miss this opportunity to learn, connect, and empower yourself in the fight for a livable planet. We look forward to seeing you there! Free event. Kick off the new year with service and community! After a successful shift in our schedule last month, we’ve decided to stick with our 4:00 PM start time. It worked beautifully for our volunteers and our neighbors downtown, so we’re keeping the momentum going.This month’s project will take place on Tuesday, January 27, 2026. Event Details
What to Expect (The Itinerary) Whether you can stay for the whole evening or just help with the prep, every hand makes a difference. You are welcome to participate in the preparation, the distribution, or both!
How to Sign Up To ensure we have enough supplies and hands on deck, please send an RSVP to our Youth and Young Adult Coordinator: RSVP to Lara Anderson: [email protected] This initiative is proudly funded through our Young Adult Ministry program. We are incredibly grateful for the leadership and energy our young adults bring to this project every month. We look forward to seeing you in the Common Room on the 27th! We have some incredible news to share! Typically, our Burrito Project is a monthly staple, but thanks to the inspiring initiative of our youth volunteers, February 2026 will feature two opportunities to serve. After learning about the costs associated with each project, a group of our youth stepped up and raised the necessary funds to add an entire extra service date to the calendar. Because of their hard work, we can reach even more neighbors in need this month. Mark Your Calendars To help us plan accordingly, please get these dates on your radar and RSVP as soon as possible. We are offering the same itinerary for both evenings:
Location: Common Room at First UU San Diego 298 W Arbor Dr, San Diego, CA 92103 What to Expect (The Itinerary) Whether you can stay for the whole time or just a portion, your help makes a difference. You are welcome to participate in the preparation, the distribution, or both!
How to Sign Up Please RSVP to our Youth and Young Adult Coordinator, Lara Anderson, if you are interested in serving on one or both of these days. RSVP Email: [email protected] This initiative is proudly funded through our Young Adult Ministry program. We are so grateful to the young leaders in our congregation for making this second project possible. We hope to see you there! The Interfaith Coalition for Earth Justice (ICEJ) is excited to announce their "Hands in the Soil" program, offering monthly volunteer opportunities to connect with the earth and support local environmental initiatives. Partnering with three incredible organizations – Project New Village, Farm Lab, and Surfrider Foundation – ICEJ invites you to dedicate your time and energy to making a tangible difference in our community and for our planet. What is "Hands in the Soil"? "Hands in the Soil" is ICEJ's commitment to active environmental stewardship. By collaborating with established local organizations, they provide a platform for individuals to engage in meaningful work that directly benefits our ecosystems and communities. When and Where Can You Volunteer? Mark your calendars! Volunteer opportunities are scheduled for the third Saturday of each month, from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM. Here's a look at the schedule for the first half of 2026: Project New Village
This is a fantastic opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals, learn about local environmental efforts, and contribute to a healthier planet. Whether you're passionate about sustainable agriculture or ocean conservation, there's a place for you in "Hands in the Soil." Stay tuned for more information on how to sign up for these volunteer dates and details regarding the partnership with Farm Lab. Let's get our hands in the soil and work together for a more just and sustainable earth! Are you looking to deepen your understanding of social justice in the Middle East? Do you want to learn how our congregation can put our Unitarian Universalist values into action? The Palestine/Israel Social Justice team invites you to a vital educational forum on the Apartheid-Free pledge movement. This is an opportunity for our community to come together, listen, and engage with one of the most pressing human rights conversations of our time. Event Details
What to Expect This forum is designed to provide clarity and context regarding the international movement to end apartheid. We are honored to host two distinguished speakers who will lead our discussion:
All three are knowledgeable, and Jason Folkman, who leads the Palestine Israel Justice Team at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of San Dieguito (UUFSD), can provide insight about how the process has been going at UUFSD. Why Now? In 2024, the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) issued a powerful Statement of Solidarity with Palestinians, which explicitly urges UU congregations to take the Apartheid-Free pledge. During this session, we will:
Your Voice Matters Following the presentation, there will be dedicated time for questions and open discussion. Whether you are well-versed in this topic or are hearing about the pledge for the first time, your perspective is welcome as we navigate this journey of conscience together. "Justice is what love looks like in public." — Cornel West We look forward to seeing you there for a morning of education, reflection, and community building.
Most of us are by now familiar with the warnings: loneliness is worse for our health than smoking 15 cigarettes a day. The statistics supporting that are astonishing. Billions of dollars are spent in related health care, hundreds of millions of lives are lived in quiet solitude. What's causing this? Is there a cure? TALK ABOUT LONELY looks at the obvious culprits: smartphones, dating apps, 'social' media, contactless commerce, the pandemic, remote work, urbanization, A.I., the ever-increasing pace of 21st century life. Then it digs much deeper into the hidden, underlying causes: concentration of the media into the hands of self-interested capital, legitimization of inequality prioritizing individual gains over community health, neoliberalism, capitalism gone dramatically wrong. And most importantly, we'll see the pathways many are successfully taking to escape this labyrinth. The film presents evocative images of our many states of both disconnection and re-connection. It features deeply insightful commentary. TALK ABOUT LONELY is raw, beautiful, heartbreaking, heartwarming, challenging, revealing, and most importantly–hopeful. "[A] compelling and beautiful film illustrating the importance of human connection"–Carrie Henning-Smith, Associate Professor, Health Policy, University of Minnesota. "Talk About Lonely is an intelligent, thoughtful, and penetrating portrait of the negative impacts that the escalating levels of social isolation and loneliness are having on our lives. But it is not just a tale of gloom and doom. This film goes beyond just examining the worrisome influences that AI, pornography, public spaces, policy, social media, and climate are having on our ability to meaningfully connect with others–It speaks to the ability of art, music, the outdoors, and our inherent human nature to help us to never walk alone"–Lenard Kaye, Professor of Social Work, Director, Center on Aging, University of Maine. 77 Minutes, 2025, Directed by Charles Wilkinson There is no better way to celebrate community than by gathering together to share traditions and delicious food. We invite you to join us for the South Bay Tamalada, an afternoon dedicated to connection, culture, and nourishment. Whether tamale-making is a cherished generational tradition in your family or you’ve never spread masa on a husk in your life, all are welcome! This event is a true community effort—we each bring a portion of the ingredients or tools needed to make the tamales, ensuring there is plenty for everyone to enjoy. Event Details
How to Participate Because this is a communal "potluck-style" preparation, we ask that you sign up in advance to contribute an item. Your contribution helps make this afternoon of nourishment possible for the whole group! Click Here to Sign Up Questions? If you have any questions about what to bring or what to expect, please feel free to reach out to Carlynn Ashley at [email protected]. We can't wait to see you in the Social Hall for a day of food and friendship! Want to volunteer to accompany immigrants at the downtown San Diego courthouse? Sign-up for training Date: Jan 9th, 2026 Time: 2:30 PM - 4:30 PM Location: St. Peter's Episcopal Church 334 14th St, Del Mar, CA 92014 Sign up here (the button is halfway down the page) Read what it's like Join other UUs and read one's reflection here. Saturday, Jan 10th 7 pm - 9:30 pm Meeting House at First UU Free event. Reserve your spot at Eventbrite. Community is built on the stories we tell and the songs we sing together. This month, we invite you to a very special evening dedicated to the struggles, triumphs, and enduring spirits of the women who paved the way for LGBTQ+ rights right here in our own backyard. From Oral History to the Big Screen Over the summer of 2025, Diversionary Theatre staged a powerful production titled The Lesbians of San Diego. This wasn't just any play; the script was meticulously crafted from real-life interviews with the women who formed the backbone of the San Diego lesbian community throughout the 1970s, 80s, and 90s. The live run in August was a massive success, playing to sold-out crowds at every performance. For those who missed the live show—or those who want to experience the magic again—producer Kit Gately captured a professional recording of a performance. We are honored to host a special screening of this vital piece of local history. A Night of Music and Memory Music has always been the heartbeat of community life and activism. Before the screening begins, we are thrilled to welcome two legendary local voices back to the stage. Pam Briggs and Maggie Beck, both of whom are portrayed as characters in the play, have brushed off their guitars and tuned up their voices to join us once again. Longtime locals may remember them from their regular performances at the San Diego County Fair, the Old Time Cafe, and various music festivals. One of their most iconic moments was joining the San Diego Women’s Chorus in 1997 for a performance of "A Woman’s Anthem"—a song that remains just as relevant and stirring today as it was nearly thirty years ago. Join Us Come early to catch the music, stay for the history, and celebrate the incredible women who helped shape the San Diego we know today.
Settling In It has been two months since the Food Pantry pulled up stakes and moved to our new home at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Chula Vista. Transitions of this size are never easy, but thanks to an incredible team and a lot of heavy lifting, the move has been a resounding success. Making the Move Moving an entire pantry is a logistical puzzle. Between hauling heavy equipment, prepping the new rooms at St. John’s, and navigating the paperwork for our city permit, there was plenty to do. We are incredibly proud to report that we only missed one Saturday of distribution during the entire process. By the Numbers To ensure a smooth start, we intentionally restricted the number of tickets during our first Saturday at the new location. We wanted to make sure our systems worked before opening the floodgates. Since then, we’ve hit our stride:
Smoother Than Ever A huge shout-out goes to Deirdre, Corina, Sara, and Rhea. This team has been instrumental in organizing the new layout. Thanks to their hard work, we’ve integrated additional carts, tables, tarps, and flags that have made the distribution flow even more efficiently than before. Whether you are a neighbor who just joined us or a volunteer who helped us move the very first crate, thank you for being part of this new chapter at St. John’s. We are honored to serve the Chula Vista community from our new home. To volunteer with the Food Pantry email us at [email protected]. Our annual holiday potluck is always a highlight of the year, but this one felt extra special. On December 20th, we gathered for our first-ever potluck at our new home in St. John’s Episcopal in Chula Vista. We had a fantastic turnout, with volunteers from the entire week joining us after the Saturday distribution to share a meal and celebrate our hard work. From homemade favorites to festive desserts, the spirit of the season was in full swing. Check out the photo gallery to see the faces (and flavors!) that made the day so memorable. In 2024 the film No Other Land was awarded the Oscar for best documentary motion picture. Despite the award, it has not been widely seen in the United States because no distributor had the courage to pick it up. (It is now available for individuals to rent via streaming services). In November, the Palestine/Israel Social Justice Team, with the support of SJET, screened the film in the Common Room. It was painful to watch. The film shows the forced displacement of the Palestinian residents of Masafer Yatta, a group of hamlets with roots in the 19 th century. When Israel decided it would use the area for tank maneuver training, soldiers systematically demolished residents’ homes. They sealed off Palestinians’ water wells by filling them with cement and bulldozed their children’s playgrounds. Meanwhile Israeli settlers attacked residents, unchecked by nearby Israeli soldiers. During the making of the film two unarmed Palestinians were shot by soldiers, one of whom, Haran, paralyzed from the neck down, dies for lack of medical care. The suppression of No Other Land is replaying with regard to the new film, The Voice of Hind Rajab. The movie is based on the recordings of a terrified 5-year-old Gazan girl trapped in a car with the dead bodies of her family members speaking with rescue workers. Although an ambulance is eight minutes away two hours pass as rescue workers seek a greenlight for its safe passage, while trying to reassure and calm the child. In the end the Israelis destroy the ambulance and kill its crew, as well as the girl. In the New York Times M. Gessen noted: “Everywhere in the world this film, shortlisted for the Oscar for best foreign movie, has major distributors – but not in the United States or Israel.” This month's burrito project will take place on Tuesday, December 23rd. We are gathering in the Common Room at First UU to assemble burritos starting at 4:00 pm. Next, we will clean up our working area, load Lara's van and drive downtown to distribute the burritos by 5:00 . We will return to the Hillcrest campus by 7:00 at the latest. Assembling burritos involves scooping beans, rice, and corn into a warmed tortilla, wrapping the tortilla, placing two burritos into a bag with two cold waters, and then putting the bagged items into a wagon. You are welcome to participate in either the preparation, distribution, or both. Children are welcome to support this project under the direct care of a guardian. RSVP to Lara Anderson ([email protected]) Prep Location and Caravan Meetup: First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego 298 W Arbor Dr San Diego, CA 92103 Funded through the Young Adult Ministry program Once or twice a year, the board calls congregational meetings to conduct important business, like voting on budgets, constitutional amendments, or calling new ministers. Best practice requires a clearly-defined quorum—the percentage of eligible voting members needed to conduct official business and take binding votes.
Our constitution previously defined quorum as a percentage of attendees rather than eligible members. This meant that theoretically, a very small number of people could make consequential decisions for the entire congregation. Last June, we approved this change to the constitution: Section 3. Quorum. A quorum shall consist of 20% of Voting Members present at a duly called Annual or Special Congregational Meeting. A quorum of 35% of Voting Members is required for decisions outlined in Article IV, Section 1. Voting Members attending virtually count toward establishing a quorum. Technology now enables both in-person and online attendance, and both count toward the quorum. Our meetings feature two-way communication and real-time voting via paper or digital ballot. This reduces the need for absentee ballots, though exceptions may be approved on a case-by-case basis by the lead minister or board president. We hope absentee ballots become mostly a thing of the past because there is value in coming together and considering issues and questions as a community. How often have you entered a meeting with your mind made up, only to hear a new perspective or information you didn't have before, and then made a different decision? That is how it should be—a process of discernment, whether the topic is approving an annual budget, a policy change, or calling a new minister. The time spent together in conversation, whether in person or online, is an essential part of the process. That's why we tightened up our constitution's language to better define quorum, and why we want to encourage full participation by every member of our faith community. Special Event! Join the Racialized Identities Awareness Book Group with Author Laila Ibrahim12/9/2025 Friday, January 9th 6:30-8:30 pm Bard Hall at First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego Mark your calendars! The Racialized Identities Awareness Book Group is excited to announce a special evening event featuring author Laila Ibrahim to discuss her powerful novel, Yellow Crocus. Laila Ibrahim, a Unitarian Universalist (UU) from the Bay Area and a good friend of Kristen Keller (a friend of First UU), will be joining us for what promises to be a deeply moving and insightful discussion. Yellow Crocus tells the story of an intense and complicated relationship that begins the moment the infant Lisbeth is born and immediately handed over to her enslaved wet nurse, Mattie. Mattie is a young mother who has been separated from her own infant son to care for her tiny charge. Though Lisbeth is born into a life of privilege, she experiences deep loneliness in the company of her own distant parents. As she grows, Mattie becomes more like family to Lisbeth than her own kin. Lisbeth's visits to the slaves’ quarters and their lively, loving community bring the two women closer together than ever. The novel explores a central, profound question: Can two women in such disparate circumstances form a bond like theirs without consequence? This deeply moving tale of unlikely love traces the journey of these very different women as each searches for freedom and dignity in a society designed to keep them apart. Join us for this special event to hear Laila Ibrahim share the inspiration behind her work and discuss the complex themes of race, family, and the search for humanity in the face of profound adversity. Free Event. Read more about the book. |
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