Rev. Kathleen Owens
Lead Minister - joined the staff in 2007
After serving this congregation for seven years as the Associate Minister, the congregation called the Rev. Kathleen Owens as their Lead Minister in 2013. Kathleen continues to find and co-create a variety of ways for the congregation to create meaningful community, to nurture spiritual growth and act on our values to help heal our part of the world here in San Diego County. Kathleen feels especially blessed to share this ministry with the other gifted ministers and staff of this congregation, across its two campuses. Kathleen writes, “We at First UU Church are committed to offering bold and engaging worship and programs that stir the heart and mind, inviting people to explore more deeply how community, justice, care and joy can live more fully in our lives. We want to create more partnerships with local organizations in the work of justice so that the San Diego region can be more just, equitable and compassionate. We are committed to raising our collective and individual awareness in order to identify and remove cultural, physical and attitudinal barriers to full participation in our congregation and ensure a leadership development program for all ages. This is an exciting place to worship, learn, share and grow together in becoming our best and fullest selves so that we can use our gifts to bless the world. Wherever you are on your journey, if you come with an open heart and mind, you are welcome in this vibrant, diverse and multigenerational community.” When Kathleen is not at church, she and her wife Jan are either walking and hiking in San Diego, traveling, enjoying movies and theatre or spending time with their family at home. As Lead Minister, Kathleen focuses on the following areas of ministry: Worship, Generosity, Pastoral Care, Children and Family Ministry, our South Bay campus and an emerging ministry to Military service members, their families and veterans. Kathleen holds a B.A. in English with a teaching certificate from Purdue University and a Masters of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
After serving this congregation for seven years as the Associate Minister, the congregation called the Rev. Kathleen Owens as their Lead Minister in 2013. Kathleen continues to find and co-create a variety of ways for the congregation to create meaningful community, to nurture spiritual growth and act on our values to help heal our part of the world here in San Diego County. Kathleen feels especially blessed to share this ministry with the other gifted ministers and staff of this congregation, across its two campuses. Kathleen writes, “We at First UU Church are committed to offering bold and engaging worship and programs that stir the heart and mind, inviting people to explore more deeply how community, justice, care and joy can live more fully in our lives. We want to create more partnerships with local organizations in the work of justice so that the San Diego region can be more just, equitable and compassionate. We are committed to raising our collective and individual awareness in order to identify and remove cultural, physical and attitudinal barriers to full participation in our congregation and ensure a leadership development program for all ages. This is an exciting place to worship, learn, share and grow together in becoming our best and fullest selves so that we can use our gifts to bless the world. Wherever you are on your journey, if you come with an open heart and mind, you are welcome in this vibrant, diverse and multigenerational community.” When Kathleen is not at church, she and her wife Jan are either walking and hiking in San Diego, traveling, enjoying movies and theatre or spending time with their family at home. As Lead Minister, Kathleen focuses on the following areas of ministry: Worship, Generosity, Pastoral Care, Children and Family Ministry, our South Bay campus and an emerging ministry to Military service members, their families and veterans. Kathleen holds a B.A. in English with a teaching certificate from Purdue University and a Masters of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Tania Márquez
Assistant Minister - joined the staff in 2017
"On Sundays, you are more likely to see me in our South Bay campus. I am South Bay´s part time minister and I am also in charge of our Caring Ministry, the People of Color group, coordinating our Wisdom Circles, and overseeing the Young Adult ministry at our church. I am also a program leader for the Unitarian Universalist College for Social Justice. I am excited about the work that a border church can engage in and happy to be a team member of First Church. I am inspired by the work of its members and the commitment to multicultural growth and social justice. It is an honor to serve this one as a minister". For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
"On Sundays, you are more likely to see me in our South Bay campus. I am South Bay´s part time minister and I am also in charge of our Caring Ministry, the People of Color group, coordinating our Wisdom Circles, and overseeing the Young Adult ministry at our church. I am also a program leader for the Unitarian Universalist College for Social Justice. I am excited about the work that a border church can engage in and happy to be a team member of First Church. I am inspired by the work of its members and the commitment to multicultural growth and social justice. It is an honor to serve this one as a minister". For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Matthew Waterman
Intern Minister - joined the staff in 2020
I am this year’s Intern Minister for First UU Church of San Diego, albeit virtually, as I reside in the East Bay of the San Francisco area. After nearly a decade of working in banking, I transitioned into governmental accounting, where I worked for several more years. I found that I was still feeling a draw to go into ministry – one that I had been fighting since I was 12. I am still attending Starr King School for the Ministry, where I hope to graduate in May 2021. I also work for Starr King as the Director of Admissions and Recruitment. I am excited to be a part of this thriving and lively congregation and have been learning so much about congregational life. While I have ultimately not discerned where my path will lead me, I am drawn to congregational ministry or interim ministry. In my spare time, I love to spend time with family and friends, read, or visit the beach, especially Point Reyes North Beach. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
I am this year’s Intern Minister for First UU Church of San Diego, albeit virtually, as I reside in the East Bay of the San Francisco area. After nearly a decade of working in banking, I transitioned into governmental accounting, where I worked for several more years. I found that I was still feeling a draw to go into ministry – one that I had been fighting since I was 12. I am still attending Starr King School for the Ministry, where I hope to graduate in May 2021. I also work for Starr King as the Director of Admissions and Recruitment. I am excited to be a part of this thriving and lively congregation and have been learning so much about congregational life. While I have ultimately not discerned where my path will lead me, I am drawn to congregational ministry or interim ministry. In my spare time, I love to spend time with family and friends, read, or visit the beach, especially Point Reyes North Beach. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Jim Grant
Affiliate Minister - joined the staff in 2010
Rev. Jim Grant has been with First UU Church since 1996, having joined the church with his wife Betty in 1998. During this time Rev. Grant served as an Interim or Consulting minister in ten different UU Congregations and was away for the periods he served. Since retiring in 2010 he has been active without interruption with First UU. As Affiliate Minister he fills in on an "as needed" basis, primarily providing pastoral care and "rite of passage" services such as weddings and memorial (Celebration of Life) services, additionally teaching Adult Religious classes and workshops. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Jim Grant has been with First UU Church since 1996, having joined the church with his wife Betty in 1998. During this time Rev. Grant served as an Interim or Consulting minister in ten different UU Congregations and was away for the periods he served. Since retiring in 2010 he has been active without interruption with First UU. As Affiliate Minister he fills in on an "as needed" basis, primarily providing pastoral care and "rite of passage" services such as weddings and memorial (Celebration of Life) services, additionally teaching Adult Religious classes and workshops. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Julie Forest
Affiliate Minister
I began my ministry on Bainbridge Island and have served churches in Washington, Wisconsin and most recently in the Rancho Mirage / Palm Springs area of the Southern California dessert. Ministry is my second career after being an on air radio programmer, DJ, and music director. I have been married to my wife since we got illegally married at First UU San Francisco. In addition, I am a mom of a young adult.
Although I retired at the General Assembly last year in Spokane Washington, I still maintain a private practice of spiritual direction as well as clergy coaching. I also do some community ministry for the LGBT center.
I am grateful to the board and the other ministers at First SD for welcoming me as an affiliate minister. I preach for this congregation occasionally and also do some teaching and some group facilitation. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
I began my ministry on Bainbridge Island and have served churches in Washington, Wisconsin and most recently in the Rancho Mirage / Palm Springs area of the Southern California dessert. Ministry is my second career after being an on air radio programmer, DJ, and music director. I have been married to my wife since we got illegally married at First UU San Francisco. In addition, I am a mom of a young adult.
Although I retired at the General Assembly last year in Spokane Washington, I still maintain a private practice of spiritual direction as well as clergy coaching. I also do some community ministry for the LGBT center.
I am grateful to the board and the other ministers at First SD for welcoming me as an affiliate minister. I preach for this congregation occasionally and also do some teaching and some group facilitation. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Katy Kroll Swanson, BCC
Affiliate Community Minister
I am an ordained Unitarian Universalist minister and I serve as a Hospital Chaplain at Rady Children's Hospital, San Diego. I was ordained in 2018 by the Unitarian Universalist Church of Long Beach, the church I grew up attending. I am Board Certified by the Association of Professional Chaplains.
At Rady Children's Hospital, I provide spiritual and emotional support to patients and families experiencing significant change and/or loss, and to the staff caring for them. I enjoy getting to know families from many different backgrounds, hearing their stories, and helping them make meaning from and find hope in challenging experiences. I feel especially called to walking with families in moments of crisis. I work with my colleagues to confront racial and economic healthcare inequity.
My husband, Steve, and I are members tof First UU Church and we have a young daughter. I have preached at our South Bay campus, sung in the JUUL Tones choir, and serve as a co-facilitator of the Caregivers & Allies Support Group at First UU.
I love working in healthcare, where I learn something new every day. I co-facilitate a Facebook group for UU Chaplain Colleagues which I worked to establish in 2017. It is an engaged, active group of approximately 80 UU chaplains working in healthcare and other community settings who support each other personally and professionally.
In my free time I enjoy swimming in the ocean or pool with my master's swim team, running, or taking my daughter to one of our local playgrounds. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
I am an ordained Unitarian Universalist minister and I serve as a Hospital Chaplain at Rady Children's Hospital, San Diego. I was ordained in 2018 by the Unitarian Universalist Church of Long Beach, the church I grew up attending. I am Board Certified by the Association of Professional Chaplains.
At Rady Children's Hospital, I provide spiritual and emotional support to patients and families experiencing significant change and/or loss, and to the staff caring for them. I enjoy getting to know families from many different backgrounds, hearing their stories, and helping them make meaning from and find hope in challenging experiences. I feel especially called to walking with families in moments of crisis. I work with my colleagues to confront racial and economic healthcare inequity.
My husband, Steve, and I are members tof First UU Church and we have a young daughter. I have preached at our South Bay campus, sung in the JUUL Tones choir, and serve as a co-facilitator of the Caregivers & Allies Support Group at First UU.
I love working in healthcare, where I learn something new every day. I co-facilitate a Facebook group for UU Chaplain Colleagues which I worked to establish in 2017. It is an engaged, active group of approximately 80 UU chaplains working in healthcare and other community settings who support each other personally and professionally.
In my free time I enjoy swimming in the ocean or pool with my master's swim team, running, or taking my daughter to one of our local playgrounds. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Bonnie Tarwater
Affiliate Community Minister - joined the staff in 2018
Rev. Bonnie Tarwater was ordained at First UU Church of SD in 1999, and is their first “affiliated community minister.” She has served as a parish minister in both UU and UCC churches and currently serves, Church for Our Common Home, a church and counseling center, churchforourcommonhome.com a non-profit thatprovides artistic, religious and psychological services to awaken to the moral and ecologic crisis as an invitation for spiritual growth and creating loving community with all of creation, caring for our common home, Mother Earth. Bonnie is a Unitarian Christian dedicated to eco-feminism, the divine feminine, and AWE, Art, the Wisdom traditions and the Earth. Working previously in the professional theater she explores metaphor, symbol, color, dreams, visions, story, music, ritual, and dance for healing, community building and transformation. A devoted grandmother, she has a BA, from UCSD in Visual Art, an MFA, from ACT in theater, a CA Teaching Credential in Art and Theater from USIU, is certified from the Marin Institute of Projective Dream Work and received her M.Div. from Claremont School of Theology. She honors dreams as an ancient spiritual tradition whose time has come back and is the SD Rep for the International Association for the Study of Dreams for San Diego. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Rev. Bonnie Tarwater was ordained at First UU Church of SD in 1999, and is their first “affiliated community minister.” She has served as a parish minister in both UU and UCC churches and currently serves, Church for Our Common Home, a church and counseling center, churchforourcommonhome.com a non-profit thatprovides artistic, religious and psychological services to awaken to the moral and ecologic crisis as an invitation for spiritual growth and creating loving community with all of creation, caring for our common home, Mother Earth. Bonnie is a Unitarian Christian dedicated to eco-feminism, the divine feminine, and AWE, Art, the Wisdom traditions and the Earth. Working previously in the professional theater she explores metaphor, symbol, color, dreams, visions, story, music, ritual, and dance for healing, community building and transformation. A devoted grandmother, she has a BA, from UCSD in Visual Art, an MFA, from ACT in theater, a CA Teaching Credential in Art and Theater from USIU, is certified from the Marin Institute of Projective Dream Work and received her M.Div. from Claremont School of Theology. She honors dreams as an ancient spiritual tradition whose time has come back and is the SD Rep for the International Association for the Study of Dreams for San Diego. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Ministers Emeriti
Rev. Dr. Carolyn Sheets Owen-Towle
Carolyn Owen-Towle served as a UU Minister for many years. She is also a published author and popular speaker. As the daughter of renowned watercolorist Millard Sheets, Carolyn has always been immersed in the world of art and continues to be actively involved with many arts organizations. Carolyn served as co-minister of First UU Church of San Diego with her husband Tom from 1978 to 2002.
Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
With over four decades in Unitarian Universalist ministry and leadership in the men’s movement, Tom Owen-Towle brings a seasoned perspective to the topics of progressive religion, partnership, gender justice, parenting, and citizenship in the global family. Tom Owen-Towle served as a parish minister since 1967 and is the author of two dozen books on various topics of personal growth, social compassion, and spiritual depth. He has been partnered in marriage for 40+ years to Carolyn Sheets Owen-Towle, and they are devoted parents of four and active grandparents of six. He is also a guitarist, a Little League coach, a budding magician and merry-maker, especially with seniors. Owen-Towle is a national leader who continues to conduct workshops and retreats on the core themes of his books. Tom served as co-minister of First UU Church of San Diego with his wife Carolyn from 1978 to 2002. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
Carolyn Owen-Towle served as a UU Minister for many years. She is also a published author and popular speaker. As the daughter of renowned watercolorist Millard Sheets, Carolyn has always been immersed in the world of art and continues to be actively involved with many arts organizations. Carolyn served as co-minister of First UU Church of San Diego with her husband Tom from 1978 to 2002.
Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
With over four decades in Unitarian Universalist ministry and leadership in the men’s movement, Tom Owen-Towle brings a seasoned perspective to the topics of progressive religion, partnership, gender justice, parenting, and citizenship in the global family. Tom Owen-Towle served as a parish minister since 1967 and is the author of two dozen books on various topics of personal growth, social compassion, and spiritual depth. He has been partnered in marriage for 40+ years to Carolyn Sheets Owen-Towle, and they are devoted parents of four and active grandparents of six. He is also a guitarist, a Little League coach, a budding magician and merry-maker, especially with seniors. Owen-Towle is a national leader who continues to conduct workshops and retreats on the core themes of his books. Tom served as co-minister of First UU Church of San Diego with his wife Carolyn from 1978 to 2002. For contact info, see our Ministers and Staff page.
