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Men's Fellowship

The Unitarian Universalist Men's Fellowship (UUMF) is an affiliated organization of The First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego. The goal of this fellowship is to assist men in their quest to discover who they are as men, sons, fathers, grandfathers, husbands, partners, and brothers.

UUMF 2016 Fall Renewal

Artist, musician, hiker, traveler, philosopher, caregiver, benefactor? What lights your fire? What passion nourishes you, gives meaning to your life, leads to a sense of satisfaction, pleasure, and joy, and gives support in these times of recurring crises? Please join with your brothers to explore what passions may be in your hearts, to celebrate them and the passions of your brothers, and to just relax in the autumn mountain/back country setting of Camp Stevens near Julian CA. There will be time for fellowship with new and old friends, to sing, to reflect, and to hike, For more information please contact Andy French (afrench11@gmail.com, 619-521-2533) or John Holl (johnholl@cox.net 619-546-6525).

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Our Mission

Our mission is to support men in the quest for lives of compassion, integrity, responsibility, and balance. We are a caring, intentionally diverse brotherhood, committed to social justice, and offering opportunities for intimate sharing, personal growth, and spiritual deepening.

Fourth Monday Discussion

On the fourth Monday of the month, interested men meet in Room 114 (usually) from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. to discuss a wide variety of topics dealing with men’s issues. Most meetings begin with a check-in. These discussions and events/topics are announced via our web site and email to UUMF participants.

Support Groups

The Men's Fellowship currently has a dozen closed committed active support groups. They usually meet twice a month at members’ homes. The groups range in size from five to eight men. If, after becoming familiar with the Fellowship, you would like to consider membership in a group, please contact Armin Kuhlman, support group coordinator. These are not crisis groups and require a significant time commitment.

Steering Committee

The direction of the Fellowship and upcoming events are discussed and coordinated at regularly scheduled meetings of the Steering Committee. We work on the consensus model and welcome input from all who attend.  Kim Cohnand Fergal O’Doherty  are our current conveners. Please email them regarding the next meeting.

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